by admin on 28 Sep 2008, 22:07
Quite a number of years ago a then single friend of mine who was in the Foreign Service was about to accept a posting to Brazil. His comment was that a lot of his older colleagues had Brazilian wives. Erotic Caribbean women are able to please their partner in and out of the bed that is why so many men are enthused by the Tropical women even when it WAS politically incorrect. More and more not only are men seeing the intellectual side of the tropical woman but also her sexual side with very few limitations. Maybe you have a neighbor who has a master�s degree and a summerhouse in the tropics and is married with a Caribbean lady who just has (if) a high school education and you wonder why?!! Well as we say in the Caribbean "If it is not in the face, it is in the waist "meaning if she is not well educated and drop dead beautiful she can handle her business in bed". Meaning that if even if she cannot compete for Miss World she can handle herself very well in bed. We suggest that you set aside some time each day to slowly practice the romantic side of the vacation. What�s the rush, you have all day and all week. You came on the vacation to relax and enjoy yourself. So slow down and relax. Try oral sex with a fizz. Take a mouthful of champagne and let the bubbles tickle him/her while you get down to business. Don't be left out though, get him/her to do the same for you. Have sex in a new position, one
you've never tried. Experiment with ice cubes. Try sliding them over each other's bodies andlicking away the melting water, kissing with one, passing from them mouth to mouth ... whatever floats your boat! They love it in Margarita Island.
If you rush sex because you don't have much time thinking of your next excursion, break the habit by ... going to bed earlier, putting on a CD and
play around without going for penetration until at least four tracks have played (trust me, I know them for practically 20 years although twice divorced, too much temptation.
If you're in a rut in bed because you do the same things again and again, break the habit by investing in what the Japanese call a pillow book and choose one new thing to try every day.
If you've got selfish because you get more pleasure from receiving than giving, then break the habit by alternating sessions where only one of you calls the shots. First time you say exactly what you want, next time he/she does.
If you feel you're not intimate because sex has become a routine, break the habit by reintroducing communication. Try a whole session keeping eyes open and eye contact, try murmuring words to her the Latino ladies love it.
If you've lost the romance because your life's so busy, break the habit by taking one long day in bed.